When the discussion turned to aging parents, to where they are fitting into my life at this time, she of course asked about my father's plans for his future. He hasn't any and cannot be convinced that now is the perfect time to make some. If you truly believe you are never going to die, you don't have to make any plans, you just keep on living. Next question then concerned his living will. We shared a chuckle and then a serious turn, "do you have a DNR on him?" D-N-Noooo, I don't!! I know what he really wants and he trusts me to do the right thing at the right time. What, resuscitate him and sentence him to another few hours, days, weeks, months of years of the tiny slice of life that he lives? Prolong his wait for that reunion with the love of his life? No. It will not be happening. Not on my watch.
Perfect timing. I have to make my own plans. Discussion with husband time but more than that.....I have to make it abundantly clear, put it in writing where it will be seen. If I give up the game, do NOT, do not, not, not, "R" me! Leave me alone. Let God do His thing. Don't mess with anything. Especially if I make it to my late eighties. I don't want to be Rrr'd unless.........
Guns, all guns and all weapons of small, medium or large destruction are removed from the Earth, never to return
Reality shows are banned and never seen again
The Kardashians have all become extinct
Rap music is passe
Cancer is totally cured
There is but one political party and lie detector testing is integral in the leader selection
Parents have stopped applauding and saying "good job" every time a child passes gas
Hand-held electronic devices are forbidden in restaurants and any other public places
Laws are enforced
People realize how stupid it is to text someone in the next room
People realize the incredible waste of time that texting and FaceBook are
Chocolate makes you thin
Everyone lives in peace and harmony, huge houses with swimming pools beside the seashore
Nah, on second thought, just leave me alone, I repeat, leave me alone and DNR anything. If you do, I will haunt you every night when I finally don't R anymore. I think I just described Heaven and all the things I expect to find there and it's all looking pretty good. So, please let me die. Thank you.
Now, where do I sign?